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10-01-2019 07:54 PM
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10-01-2019 07:58 PM
10-01-2019 07:58 PM
Re: not feeling good
I'm sorry for your partners apparent lack of concern or sympathy @BlueBay. However its likely to be more a case of not knowing what to say, rather than a lack of caring on his part. Men just show care and other emotions differently to us. They have problems in expressing emotional stuff.
Of course your kids would be terribly hurt if you were to disappear. So too, I expect, would be your husband.
How am I, you ask? I dont really know how to answer that. So I wont even try. But thank you for caring enough to ask. 💜 I have done very little today, other than to dabble in some poetry. It is a self expression method I often turn to in times of mental anguish.
Hi also to @Shaz51 who has been doing the rounds this evening.
Sherry 💕
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10-01-2019 07:59 PM
10-01-2019 07:59 PM
Re: not feeling good
@Shaz51 I’m sitting watching tv and trying to zone out from all the crap.
I might go and get my book snd read that. Thanks Shaz xxx
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10-01-2019 08:29 PM
10-01-2019 08:29 PM
Re: not feeling good
that is a good idea my sister @BlueBay,
hugs @Former-Member
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10-01-2019 09:23 PM
10-01-2019 09:23 PM
Re: not feeling good
hi bluebay Irell think hffnpurff nd his lck of uunderstandiing makes it worse for fyou Dec
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10-01-2019 09:53 PM
10-01-2019 09:53 PM
Re: not feeling good
Hi @Owlunar i know. I am going to talk to my doctor snd my psychologist. They need to know so i can get support.
I’m really worried. I don’t know what to do.
He does do a lot for me but just support me emotionally. But when he huffs snd puffs he frustrates me. To the point of wanting to disappear.
Im going to see if I can see my doctor tomorrow.
I’ll let you know.
Hope you’re ok. Xxx
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11-01-2019 04:27 PM
11-01-2019 04:27 PM
Re: not feeling good
Hi @Owlunar@Shaz51@Former-Member@Zoe7@Razzle@outlander
and others reading this
I just need to be alone
don’t want to talk or see anyone
depression and BPD is causing me lots of negative issues
my head just won’t stop
even though I want to be alone I feel very lonely
I wish I was different and happy agsin
cant see that happening 😢😢
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11-01-2019 04:39 PM
11-01-2019 04:39 PM
Re: not feeling good
hugs and hugs my sister @BlueBay
sitting with you always xoxo
when do you see little Ayla again xx
can you talk to your daughter ??
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11-01-2019 04:43 PM
11-01-2019 04:43 PM
Re: not feeling good
Dear @BlueBay
I respect your desire or need to be alone, to not talk and to not see anyone. So I will make this short.
I too wish things were different for you, I truly wish you could be happy. Not different though, as I like who I see in you.
If only we could change our thoughts, our insecurities, our negativity, our misguided self judgement. That would be nice.
Please do not feel alone as you isolate yourself right now. Know that you have friends here who want to help and will be happy to talk when you feel the need to. When you are ready ... we are all here for you.
Sherry
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11-01-2019 04:45 PM
11-01-2019 04:45 PM
Re: not feeling good
very true @Former-Member
we are here for you xx @BlueBay