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Best Friends Club

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Honestly @Bunniekins I have not had the luxury of walking much with people. Mostly had to toughen up and walk everywhere to school and work and university. Alone. At night. Walked to Lygon street to and from 3-5 nights per week for a year before I left. Working. While at school. I had to bite the bullet of my fear. In the end I felt safer on the dark side where the park was cos humans were pretty noisy and pushy in their cars. I was getting physically beaten up by the nasty girls and teased and excluded by the so called nice girls.

 

Later I used to hate it when middle class people catastrophised walking alone or catching public transport at night. I didn’t bite back on them but was polite but usually I knew they were too spoiled to ever be a safe person or friend for me. I quietly walked away. I want to scream at the world. GROW UP. Try walking in my shoes. Yes I mostly provided my own shoes from 13 years of age. I work hard to be light hearted but I guess I am just a horrible old lady now.

 

@Sunnyside226 @TAB @Gibbs @Oaktree 

 

The few times I walked in the bush or at the beach with my family or friends, I still treasure. 

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@Gibbs   if you ran with me it wouldnt be boring 🙂  https://youtu.be/ujNeHIo7oTE?list=RDlk5iMgG-WJI

 

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@Bunniekins if not for gym I wouldn't be motivated 

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@Gibbs  they scare me cauz i was manic when i went and i was crazy and scared during that period.   i once ran a marathon 🙂

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@Bunniekins i would chase you

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@Bunniekins you are brilliant.  Me not fit enough 

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@Gibbs   i like being chased by you but then i would let you catch me 🙂

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@Bunniekins you might have let me catch you.I wonder what would happen when I catch you. I was more of a sprinter than long distance. Tell me what are your thoughts on age difference?

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@Gibbs   i think i am older than you .... do you know my age?

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@Bunniekins no i do not know your age and it is irrelevant. It is what in the heart that matters. 

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